The alpha male… every guy wants to be him, and every woman wants him.
But what is an alpha male? And how do you become an alpha male?
Well, in social animals, the alpha has the highest rank, the leader of the group. He’s at the top. He has preferential access to food, activities, and mates. And he protects the group and takes care of them. That’s his role. And it’s also where the term “alpha” originally came from.
In man’s social settings, the term carries the same meaning. The alpha male is also the leader of the group, often the dominant male. But he’s neither the strongest (or toughest looking) nor the loudest (as some would have you believe.)
So this tells you that you can only be alpha, if you remain true to the word, if you’re in a group setting. That’s where the alpha male truly shines. You can’t lead if you got no one to lead, right?
So how do you become an alpha male whether you’re in a group or not? Keep reading…
If you want to be looked up to, respected, and “naturally” attract more women, then display the characteristics found in an alpha male.
You want to embody the following…
Alpha Male Traits
Start with the obvious. Alpha males wouldn’t be alpha males without… complete confidence.
That means, being confident no matter the situation. Whether things are going for you or against you. Your TOTAL confidence in yourself shouldn’t change.
Show your confidence through your body language and strong posture. Stand tall and upright. Take a lot of room and use expansive confident gestures. Walk proudly into a room. And look everyone directly in the eye.
Have this presence of calm confidence and control which comes from inner strength. Be relaxed and comfortable while being responsible and reliable.
When you talk, expect everyone to listen. Simply know people will listen and respect what you have to say.
It doesn’t mean talking a lot, but when an alpha male speak, he chooses his words wisely. And he says what he really wants to say. Know who you are and express your personality.
Use playful confident humor, (high status humor), and smile with genuine pleasure, and not be sarcastic to others. Easily joke with women, but know when it’s no longer appropriate.
Take the lead when appropriate. Make decisions for the group. Make choices that affect everyone in the group.
Lead, take charge of the situation, and do it well. Be the kind that people choose to follow. Build other up and not put them down. The alpha male help other men succeed.
Listen. The alpha male spends more time listening than talking. Listens actively, attentively, and without judgement, Naturally, people will open up to you and trust you entirely.
Be honest. The alpha male has integrity. Be exactly who you are all the time. Act with dignity and integrity at all times and in everything you do. Do what you say you will. And be who you are even in the face of social pressures.
Be ambitious. Have goals, plans, and work to achieve those plans.
Have boundaries. Let people know what you’re tolerate, let them know your limits but be subtle about it. Stand up for yourself and don’t let others push you around.
Control your emotion. The alpha has great emotional strength and deals with his emotions the right way and at the right time.
If that’s not enough… a simple way on how to be an alpha male is to emulate other alpha male. Watch how they talk, stand, act, how they look, and what clothes they wear.
Even if you know what an alpha male is all about…
Becoming an alpha male takes time (if you just can’t see yourself that way). It takes time to be confident, to earn respect, and develop inner strength.
Being alpha comes from the vast inner strength which oozes out as strong physical presence (confident, cool, and charming).
It comes from his psychology and behaviour. Being self-assured. And knowing what he wants and going after it.
To sum it up: Be high value, and take charge of your life. That’s how you become an alpha male without seeming to even trying.