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Hey Man,

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Talk to you soon,

-David D.


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Hey Man,

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-David D.


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Competition From Other Men How To Handle It

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Make 5 small tweaks to the way that you carry yourself (in other words, how you stand and walk).

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***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER***

I am recently divorced and found myself having a hard time making connections with women after being in a 9-year relationship. Before I met my ex-wife I considered myself as a “player” and had little trouble finding girls to go out with. After being out of the scene for so long, I had lots of trouble trying to get back in to the swing of things. Your ebook and emails have instantly put me back in the game and I am now getting dates with very attractive women! It’s been amazing!! Thank You!

Now for the question. All these attractive women have brought something into my dates that I am not used to, Men (Cock Blockers)! Currently, I am dating this “bomb-shell” occasionally and when we go out on a date, men will hit on her as soon as they get a chance. If I turn my back for second, some guy will try to make eye contact or say something to her. I don’t blame the guys because she is very hot, but how do I deal with this in a way that shows I am 100% confident? Typically, I just laugh and continue to have a good time by ignoring the lame ass attempts to pick up on my date, but there has to be a way that I can turn this around to make me look more confident in her eyes.

You’re the man,

B from Colorado

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well then…welcome back!

I’ve noticed that the period after breaking up with a long-term girlfriend or spouse is often a difficult one.

I think it’s easy for men (and women) to become so comfortable and emotionally dependent in a relationship that they experience a lot of FEAR when ending that relationship…

“What’s going to happen?”

“Will I ever meet another woman?”

“How do I get started?”

…etc.

I can remember breaking up with long-term girlfriends in years past, and feeling an empty, fearful, LONELY combination of emotions in my gut that was HORRIBLE.

That ALONE feeling is enough to cause a lot of problems.

Add to that, not knowing where to start, what to do, or how to “get your game back” if you had it in the past, and you usually get a bad situation.

I’ve learned that knowing how to go out anytime and meet women has a couple of MAJOR benefits when it comes to this area:

1) When you know that you can meet women anytime you want, it makes you stop acting so NEEDY and CLINGY in a relationship. Most needy and clingy Wuss behaviors are rooted in the FEAR that you’ll never be able to find another woman.

2) When it comes to ENDING a relationship, this skill makes things MUCH easier. Too many guys stay in relationships that are bad for them, and are afraid to END a relationship because of that deeply-rooted insecurity that comes from not knowing how to walk out the door anytime, anywhere and meet women. When you know how to do this, you won’t try to hold on like a girly-man, sacrifice your own respect and dignity, pleading and begging, and ultimately make the situation much worse than it would have been if you would have just walked away.

In short, what I’m trying to say is that I think understanding this area called “How to attract women” is KEY to having a good relationship.

When you have that inner confidence and KNOWING, it makes you more attractive…period.

Now let’s talk about what to do when there is competition from other guys…

First I want to talk about what I believe is at the ROOT of the problem:

1) INSECURITY.

2) JEALOUSY.

When you are insecure, you’re always wondering if some other guy is going to come along and steal your girl.

This often shows up as a combination of feelings that make you worry about losing your girl, and at the same time worrying about not being able to find another one if you DO lose this one.

This is a BAD, BAD thing because it then CLOUDS YOUR THINKING, and creates an illusion that the woman you’re with is BETTER than she is, and that you’re WORSE than you are.

We’re talking about some deep issues here, but this is the stuff that triggers the ULTIMATE WUSS types of behaviors.

Then, as if things weren’t bad enough, you go out with your girl, and other guys start hitting on her right in front of you.

This triggers MORE insecurity, and then the REAL problem…JEALOUSY.

Jealousy is an incredibly powerful emotion.

It often leads people to KILL people they love.

One scientist wrote an entire book about Jealousy, and basically claimed that it was the most powerful and important emotion ever! (The book is called “The Dangerous Passion”… referring to jealousy)

When you’re out with your girl, you turn around to order a drink, and when you turn BACK around there’s some guy talking to her with that “I’d love to take you home and do things that the lord forbids”, it can trigger a few emotions…

This is very natural. Animals have this same response in similar situations. I personally believe that we come pre-wired with BOTH of these things:

– We come pre-wired to want women that other men already have (Don’t covet thy neighbor’s wife).

– We come pre-wired to feel jealousy if we suspect that our spouse is cheating or if we think that someone is going to take them from us.

Again, normal and natural stuff.

If Yoda were here, he’d probably say:

“Jealousy is useless…

…Jealousy leads to anger, anger leads to INSECURE WUSSY BEHAVIOR… and insecure Wussy behavior leads to the DARK SIDE.”

Now, jealousy doesn’t always lead to insecure WUSSY behavior, sometimes it leads to insecure DUMB ASS behavior, like getting into a fight, or shooting someone.

Some men enjoy fights and violence.

And some women have no problem dating a man who likes to beat other men up (or beat her up).

I personally think that violence and hurting other people is the IGNORANT way to deal with things.

But, I also know that there are a lot of guys out there that don’t share my views.

The POINT I’m trying to make is that insecurity and jealousy make people do all kinds of stupid and thoughtless things.

These emotions take over your mind and body, and can trigger some of the most short-sighted behaviors you’ll ever experience.

These are complex emotions that have evolved over millions and millions of years…and they’re not going away anytime soon. In many cases, they literally take control of your mind and body.

For instance…

Let’s say you’ve just broken up with your girlfriend or wife, and it took you a long time to finally get a date with an attractive woman. Maybe you were feeling insecure and didn’t know if you could meet another woman, and let’s say that the breakup was hard on you as well.

Let’s say you’re out at a bar with your new date and you excuse yourself to use the boy’s room… and when you get back, there are TWO big, handsome guys talking to your date, and she’s laughing hysterically at what they’re saying.

What would most guys do in this situation?

THEY’D FREAK. That’s what.

All kinds of fear, jealousy, insecurity, etc. would INSTANTLY take over, and there would be thoughts of her wanting to be with these guys, them taking her away, etc.

And what do most guys actually DO in one of these situations?

They walk over, act nervous, and try to take the girl away from the situation. And they make the mistake of making it OBVIOUS that they’re all freaked out, intimidated, jealous, and insecure.

This, of course, only makes the other guys feel more powerful, and makes the woman realize that she’s with an insecure WUSS.

It becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy, in most cases.

As a side note: I have met and know of guys who actually ENJOY picking up women who are out with other guys. It’s a game to them.

And they’ve found that it’s EASY, because most men are insecure, and most women don’t want to be with a WUSS…

So what’s the answer here?

What’s the best thing to do when a guy is making his move on your girl?

Well… let’s start from a little BEFORE that.

And before I give you my take, I want to recommend that you ALSO get your hands my “On Being A Man… Who Naturally Attracts Women” program. This program will help you develop a DEEP and important part of yourself… that will help fix some of the issues we’re talking about here.

You can get all the details about it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDating.com/catalog/OnBeingAMan.html

Onward…

The best thing you can do in one of these situations is what you do BEFORE it ever happens… and it’s a combination of things:

1) Realize that there’s nothing to be insecure and jealous about, and that these things only lead to fear and loss.

2) Get your game in shape with women. Get yourself to the point where you can meet women in ANY situation. This way you always know DEEP DOWN that if any woman you’re with ever decides to leave, you can turn around and start meeting women. This eliminates insecurity.

3) Mentally prepare. Take some time to imagine that you’re in one of these situations, and notice the feelings you have. Go over it in your mind until you can think about it without having any negative emotions triggered.

And here’s what to do when you’re actually IN the situation…

1) EXPECT IT. If you start dating hot women, other men will hit on them, GUARANTEED. It’s part of life, man. You must expect that it’s going to happen and not be surprised when it does.

2) Learn how to have FUN with it. Most guys have no game at all…and it’s kind of funny to watch and listen to them. I enjoy watching guys try to meet women, because they FAIL miserably in most cases. I like to wait until a guy is finished trying to pick up on the girl I’m with, and then get her to share the details so I can laugh.

3) Suggest that she date the guy. One of my favorite things to do is say, “Hey, you guys would make a cute couple…I think you should go for him.” Of course, this is all said in a light, fun way.

4) If you suspect that the girl you’re with is actually TRYING to make you jealous, talk to other women. If you actually think that a woman is deliberately trying to make you jealous, you must do some thinking as well. Some women enjoy making men compete over them and you probably don’t want to be with one of these women. They’re a pain. But if you think it’s just a typical situation and the girl is trying to figure out if you “really” like her (because you’ll get jealous if you do), then just turn around and start a conversation with a group of girls…and wait for her to come and find you.

The point I’m making is that you MUST get over that fear/insecurity/jealousy issue, and realize that there is nothing to be afraid of.

The only power that other guys will have with your date is the power that you GIVE them… so don’t give them any power by acting like a WUSS. Keep your power for yourself. The main reason that other guys try to hit on your girl is because they don’t have one themselves. Remember that.

…and if you’re reading this right now and thinking to yourself, “You know, I need to learn this stuff about how to meet and attract women so I can get rid of that insecure and fearful feeling I have” then YOU’RE RIGHT!

I think that every man should invest in himself and learn this skill.

Unfortunately, most guys never take the time and invest in themselves… and they wind up going their whole lives WISHING that they could attract the kinds of women that they want.

Well, I used to be one of the guys who didn’t know what he was doing with women. Now I’m one of the guys who can go out anytime, in any situation and attract women.

What’s the difference?

I TOOK THE TIME TO LEARN.

And if you’d like to learn then I recommend you learn the things that I learned FIRST.

It’s taken me a long time to figure all this stuff out, and it’s also taken a lot of time, effort, and energy on my part to put it all down on paper and on video…so that any guy can learn from the things I’ve discovered.

I’d like to personally invite you to check out my materials. In a matter of hours you can learn things that it took me YEARS to figure out…all from the comfort and privacy of your own home.

My Advanced Dating Techniques Program has over 12 full hours of me teaching live…all recorded and edited in high-quality digital video streaming format that you can watch right now, online. It contains literally HUNDREDS of great ideas for meeting and dating women… and it’s probably the single best investment you can make in your dating life.

My eBook “Double Your Dating” is the FOUNDATION for everything I teach in these newsletters, and for everything I teach in my Advanced Series. It’s a “must read” and you can download it online and be reading it in about 5 minutes…

The Advanced Series is available for immediate viewing here:

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And the eBook is available for immediate reading here:

http://www.DoubleYourDating.com/catalog/eBook.html

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Make sure you take a minute and look through all the different programs I’ve created to help you learn how to meet and attract women. You can see every program I’ve created right here, plus watch free video clips of each one of them…

http://www.DoubleYourDating.com/catalog/index.html


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The material contained in this and any other communication from David DeAngelo is an expression of opinion and is not to be construed as legal, medical or professional advice. This material may only to be used for personal entertainment purposes.


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Are You Like This Guys

Time for a little tough love… a little “wake up and smell the coffee”…

HARSH REALITY IS: There’s only 1 thing that EVERY great woman wants to know the moment she meets you…

It’s simply this:

Is there ANY chance that YOU might be her one-and- only “Mr. Right”?

Learn how to show her know INSTANTLY that you might be “him” (and start getting MIND-BLOWING RESULTS with women because of it) by clicking here:

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Hey Man, I received a lot of great emails this week, including one that makes me want to tell you right up front:

DON’T BE LIKE THIS GUY.

I’ll tell you WHY in a sec. First, the letter…

***QUESTION***

Hey Dave,

I would of never expected myself to email you but sadly that day has come, where I need help oh yes.

I fell head over heals with this one girl. I went out with her, she’d always have fun, but still I wasn’t always at my full potential cause she made me feel all tingly inside.

There was this one occasion where I listened to my friend.. he said “tell her you like her”.. but I knew I shouldn’t cause you always say never tell a girl you like them.

Well, you guessed it. I told her that.

And everything started going down hill after that.

After that happened I tried to forget about her, but she IMed me once saying she wanted to give me back something I had given her for her birthday, but she didn’t want to give it to me personally. Still had fun teasing her, then nothing.

Sure people have told me to move on, and probably you’ll say that. But I’ve tried, but I feel like she’s the one. So Dave, is there something you can tell this grasshopper to try get her back or try to do to I don’t know.. it’s tough though.

Sincerely,

B.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

B., my man, all I can say is THIS IS VERY BAD.

You’ve done a VERY VERY VERY bad thing with this woman…

YOU TURNED INTO A COMPLETE AND TOTAL WUSSY on her!!!

So now here’s your punishment:

Take out an entire blank notebook full of paper and write the following by hand:

“I will not act like a WUSSY. I will not act like a WUSSY. I will not act like a WUSSY.”

When you’ve filled the notebook, you may stop.

See where this is going?

Once again, I find myself unable to say it loud enough or often enough:

WOMEN ARE *NEVER* ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES!!!!

As in, EVER.

And now you’ve gone and made the situation worse with each move you’ve made…probably to the point where there’s not much you’re going to be able to do about it.

The reason why she’s blowing you off is because she no longer feels that CRITICAL emotion called ATTRACTION for you… and it’s all because of your WUSSY ACTIONS.

And, as I always say… attraction isn’t a choice.

When you act like a wuss around a woman, you kill any chance of it.

And you can’t re-convince her to feel it by chasing her around and telling her how you “feel” about her.

That’s why you need to stop acting like a needy, lovesick puppy RIGHT NOW if you want to salvage any chance of turning this thing around.

And, for all you OTHER guys out there in the same boat, let me make this clear:

If you act like our friend B. here, YOU WILL NEVER, EVER SUCCEED WITH WOMEN.

Okay, B, back to you.

Here’s what I want you to do:

1) Start to date other women immediately, and making sure this girl knows about it.

2) Stop calling her all the time and spending any time with her.

3) NEVER again tell her how you “feel about her” (at least until BOTH of you are ready to take things to the next level… also known as a serious RELATIONSHIP).

4) Accept that, at this point, you will probably be just friends with her forever, so start acting that way.

If you do these things exactly as I’ve described, there’s a small chance that you could turn this around.

For now, though, just get on with your life, and let this be a lesson to ALL of you reading this:

NEVER, EVER act like a WUSSY!

Don’t tell a woman you “like” her too early on.

Don’t call her too often.

Don’t act clingy and needy.

JUST STOP IT.

Because, when you act like a Wuss, women AUTOMATICALLY lose their ATTRACTION for you — and they can’t even explain why it’s happening.

So again: STOP IT.

And… if you need some HELP stopping it… well, that’s what I’m here for.

I’m kind of legendary for doing this VERY thing… taking men who are submissive… insecure… nervous… even outright SCARED with women… and transforming them into CALM, COOL, CONFIDENT, DATING-SUCCESS MACHINES.

If this transformation sounds like something you’d be interested in, here’s what to do:

Click this link…

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… then start following the SUCCESS-PROVEN ADVICE you’ll find there to START CHANGING YOUR LIFE.

And do yourself a favor… do it SOONER rather than LATER.

***QUESTION***

Dave,

I got your book and I’ve read it twice. It’s helped me to pinpoint areas where I need to improve and basically understand some of why women do what they do. However I have a situation.

Normally I’m a smart ass, I’m always making smart comments, and a general joker. The problem is, when I go to a club or a bar, with gorgeous HBs (Hot Babes), my mind goes blank.

It’s almost like my brain locks and all i can do is look without anything to say. Needless to say it frustrates the hell outta me.

Any advice? Should I do some affirmations? How do I overcome this?

Signed,

Pissed off in DC

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Hey PO, I think your problem is really pretty simple.

You are experiencing something that I have been through a bazillion times.

In fact, I think that most guys have been through this cycle at some point in life.

One of the ideas that I teach is “Have one good default thing to do in each common situation”.

In other words, it sounds to me like you haven’t taken the time to work out a basic system for yourself that will allow you to meet any woman you come across in one of these situations.

So here’s YOUR homework:

Take out a piece of paper and write down your one single favorite way to start a conversation with a woman.

Next, plan out EXACTLY how it should go in your mind.

Next, mentally rehearse this scenario over and over and over until you have it clearly in your mind.

Finally, go out tomorrow night and use this one introduction to meet 10 women.

The next day, sit down again for a few minutes and think about how it worked for you.

Think about ways you could improve your approach, and if you come up with some good innovations, go ahead and do the same process of mentally rehearsing the new ideas until you have them down.

One thing that really makes me laugh is that MOST GUYS SPEND MORE TIME REHEARSING THEIR VOICEMAIL MESSAGE THAN THEY DO REHEARSING SCENARIOS WITH WOMEN.

You need one good, solid, default thing to do in each common situation with women. So pick one, and refine it until your mind no longer goes blank.

Makes sense?

Cool.

Let me know how it works for you.

***QUESTION***

Dave,

First off, fantastic book! It’s the Holy Grail of Manhood!

I have plenty of girls getting a rise out of my C- F attitude–it doesn’t make sense at all but, like you say, to them it’s magic.

For example, a few weeks ago I approached a really attractive girl (about an 8.5) at a stop walk downtown by busting on her about her platform heels she had on (made some reference to Studio 54), got her digits and told her we should have coffee sometime–she loved the idea.

When we met downtown for coffee, she said there was a particular shop she would like to go to, I firmly said ‘No’ and took her to another one. It was fantastic Dave!!! The day was beautiful and, yes, there was much more for dessert that day than my Biscotti 🙂

I’ve been reluctant to use the CF technique that I use on college girls on older women though as they probably don’t play the same ‘games’ younger ladies do.

What is your advice? Younger girls are great and energetic, but those 35-year old’s have something you only get with age… experience.

Thanks Dave!! Can’t wait for the next book!!

D, Indianapolis

>>>MY COMMENTS:

D, you’re totally off the rails on this one…

Truth is, mature, intelligent women LOVE a Cocky & Funny man.

In fact, I think you’re going to find that sophisticated women are FAR MORE receptive to your new charm techniques than their younger counterparts…

But you’re right… tread carefully, because older women ARE more experienced, have been through more games, and know what they want and how to get it.

If you’d like to learn more about how to “fine tune” and adjust the unstoppable power of Cocky & Funny to work on ANY woman… in ANY situation… here’s where to do it:

http://www.DoubleYourDating.com/catalog/CockyComedy.html

In fact… there’s one killer chapter where I go into the best way to think on the fly and “improvise” so that you come across as the funniest, most-confident guy in the room…

…no matter how old or young a woman is.

Go check it out, D.

***QUESTION***

Dear Dave,

First off, props to you on the book. The book is really about how to take control of your life and get what you want from it. That’s awesome.

But I am stuck in a difficult situation. Due to the way I look, dress, and talk, girls assume that I am a player. I am very,very inexperienced however.

I have had a few times where I am about to seal the deal, and some girl will ask me, “How many girls have you been with ?” or “You are a player aren’t you ?”

I have never sealed the deal and if I tell them this they don’t believe me and some will just get mad and leave.

I am not sure what I should say in this situation. Please help me resolve this because armed with my determination and my improving skills.

V-Man

>>>MY COMMENTS:

V-man, you say that you’ve read my book…

…but did you miss page 92?

That’s where I explain EXACTLY how to deal with this kind of situation (“How To Answer Any Question That You Don’t Want To Answer”).

But here, let me get creative for you on the fly… right here… right now.

So she asks: “Are you a player?”

I suggest you answer: “Why you asking? Are you trying to hide the fact that YOU are?”

(As you can see, I like to turn questions and accusations around and act like that they’re trying to hide the fact that what they’re asking about is something wrong with THEM.)

Or even say, “Yes, I play sports… what do you like?”

Point is… the key in situations like this is to NEVER give a woman a direct answer.

If you get all defensive and say “Oh, no no no…I’m not a Player at all…” most women won’t believe you anyway – even if you’re NOT a player.

So use your Cocky & Funny skills to come up with 5 INDIRECT, good answers like these, and then be ready use them on-demand.

Plus I’ll say it again, because some of my loyal students seem to be really hurting out there right now when it comes to stuff like this…

If you need to polish up your “Cocky & Funny” skills for SUCCESS in ANY situation, you can do it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDating.com/catalog/CockyComedy.html

***QUESTION***

Dave,

Your material is golden. The c+f routine and tips have done me wonders, but you know they work so ill get to the point.

I have been working on this girl for quite some time (she’s a ten and worth it), I built the anticipation, got her to give me her phone number: she has asked me to hang out and repeatedly emailed me asking me what I’m up to.

However! I waited a little while to actually ask her to hang out (to make me look a little busy), but when I did call her and ask her to hang out she said sure, and said she would call me right back and never did!……and to make things worse, she wrote me an email the next day telling me she forgot to call me back!

she’s so sorry, bla bla bla etc……..I know the girl thinks about me and I know she wants to hang out with me, why would she do that?……calling her repeatedly would be a wussy move: am i right?…..I blew it of and gave her a c+f answer saying do u expect me to believe that, I’m starting to think I make you nervous.

I honestly don’t think she forgot, is this a game?……This is the first 10 I’ve encountered since I’ve used your techniques so I need some advice. I wanna make this one count.

Thanks Dave PLEASE WRITE BACK!

JR New Jersey

>>>MY COMMENTS:

No worries, JR… you’re doing great.

But here’s something to remember:

Attractive women are approached ALL THE TIME by men. Some attractive women give out their number several times every night they go out.

This is reality.

Often, attractive women will actually give out their number JUST TO GET RID OF YOU. Some women get an “ego hit” of power and self esteem when a lot of guys are calling them.

But this leads to another problem… the problem of not having enough time to see all of these men (or never even intending to from the beginning).

This is why you’re going to find that a lot of women “flake out” when you make plans with them.

I will say that the fact that she emailed you the next day to tell you that she forgot to call you is a positive sign. If she just wanted you to go away, she wouldn’t have done this.

Now you need to bust her balls, make fun of her for flaking, and tell her that she’s on strike one.

You might want to tell her “Well, since you flaked out on me once, now you have to take ME out. Here’s my address and the directions to my house. Come pick me up.”

You need to let her know that it’s NOT OK for her to be flaky, and at the same time use her flaky behavior as material to tease her with.

Be persistent. You’ll learn how to deal with this as you date more women.

***QUESTION***

David,

First off, let me say that your newsletters and E- Book are awesome. They satisfied nearly every inquiry I have had in regards to getting started with women.

Needless to say my success rate has gone through the roof! I will be ordering the whole series soon.

Which brings me to my question. Here goes:

How can I win back the affections of a girl I once felt a connection with and would love to get back on the right track?

Our mutual friends have not been of assistance so far. I try calling, but I feel as though if I called as much as I’d like to I’d look like a wuss.

I have had no problem with setting up mystery. I drive a hot car, play semi pro sports, and use these things carefully and only discuss when asked. Don’t want to look too arrogant!

What else should I try, or how should I act to achieve the desired result?

I know getting another girl, or even flirting in front of her, while not impossible would kill any chances… While “Cocky and Funny” got my foot in the door, I don’t know if it is right for the situation.

Your Thoughts…

E.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Your email is profound, E..

There are many lessons that can be learned from it, but I want to point out one MAJOR thing…

Above all, as I said above, trying to “get her back” is a losing game in most situations…

The act alone suggests that you’re needy — especially when you don’t even know a woman very well, and you’re trying to “get her back” after one or two dates.

That in mind, the best things you can do to get a woman back are to:

1) Act like you’re totally OK with her decision to leave… like you COULDN’T CARE LESS…

2) Start dating other people right away and LET HER KNOW ABOUT IT.

This combination is often enough to make them come back to you… and it’s all because JEALOUSY is a POWERFUL tool for creating new attraction.

In fact, It’s FAR more powerful than most people suspect.

That’s why, as I said above, the best thing you can do is get on with your life, and date other women. And in the future, don’t allow a woman to control you AND the situation.

As a side note, I want to thank you for your email, and thank you for the compliments on my eBook.

Most guys think they don’t need this material… but as I always say (and YOU should know by now), until you REALLY understand how women and dating “work”, then almost nothing can help you.

And by the way…

If you’re reading this Mailbag right now and you are wondering how you can take your success with women and dating to the next level RIGHT NOW…

… then I once again have to recommend that you start out with my world-famous eBook called “Double Your Dating.”

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*** ALERT ****

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Meantime, I’m digging through a TIDAL WAVE of fascinating, powerful emails from you guys, so I’ll talk to you again VERY soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

PS: Guess what…

Even if a man has a PhD in English, he still can’t TALK his way into triggering attraction in a woman… if his BODY LANGUAGE is sending her the wrong signals the whole time!

Learn the game-changing secrets of how to use your body to MAKE HER WANT YOU (WITHOUT EVER OPENING YOUR MOUTH) by clicking here:

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PPS: And also, by the way…

Want to know the FASTEST way to learn EVERYTHING about the “secret psychology” of women — and how to use it to “unfairly” trigger ATTRACTION?

Then go watch my program called “Approaching Women And Starting Conversations”…

You can order it and start watching it INSTANTLY ONLINE within seconds… all at NO RISK to you… so get on it:

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Video Tip: A Simple Way To Learn What Women Really Want

There’s 1 thing that guys WASTE more time trying to do (while FAILING miserably…) when it comes to women than anything else:

It’s trying to “read” a woman’s mind to figure out what she REALLY wants in a man.

But… what if you could actually DO it? What if you could GET INSTANT ANSWERS about what she’s really looking for?

Guess what: THERE IS — and it’s the subject of today’s VIDEO TIP.

Click the “play” button to watch my SPECIAL GUEST (dating expert LANCE MASON!) describe a shockingly simple way to find out *EXACTLY* what women want when it comes to “romance”:

Oh, and if you can’t see the video above, click here.

Hey Man,

I hear it from a LOT of discouraged, frustrated guys every day…

When it comes to figuring out what women are REALLY looking for in a man, it can feel like a mystery.

Like an unsolvable puzzle.

And, based on what you hear from so-called “relationship experts”… it can feel like a puzzle with CONSTANTLY CHANGING ANSWERS.

This is why I wanted you to have a look at a clip from my world-renowned “MAN TRANSFORMATION” program today…

In this segment, my special guest Lance Mason (legendary founder of one of the world’s TOP DATING-SUCCESS companies) shares a favorite “shortcut” for getting a look into the mind of a woman.

It’s a shockingly quick-and-easy way to find out what women are *REALLY* thinking when it comes to how they want a “real man” to behave!

This one’s also great because it’s a “secret” resource that hasn’t changed in 100 YEARS… it ALWAYS WORKS with women and ALWAYS WILL.

So forget what Dr. Drew and Dr. Phil have to say (seems they change their minds every week about what it takes to succeed in a relationship, anyway) and have a look at this tip from Lance Mason.

I LOVE THIS ONE. And since I made it part of my world-famous “Man Transformation” program, I know that you will, too.

Click the link below for *FREE* INSTANT VIEWING:

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Your friend,

David D.


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Posted by at 8:07 AM

Much Better Than Taking Her To Dinner…

FILE THIS ONE UNDER *TOTALLY MIND-BLOWING*:

Did you know there are 12 WORDS you can say to ANY woman (within minutes of meeting her) that literally FORCE HER TO BE INTERESTED IN YOU… even to start *FANTASIZING* about YOU?

Listen, there was a time I didn’t believe this one, either.

But then I used it, and it worked. And then it worked AGAIN. And AGAIN and AGAIN.

Amazing…

This one’s like a “magic spell” for making women stop… listen to you… then start seeing you as the guy they might want to be with TONIGHT!

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*** DATING QUESTION FROM A READER ***

Hi David, love your newsletters, always remind me the great points I read in your book…You recently wrote:

“If you buy a woman enough dinners, she may begin to feel some AFFECTION for you…but food and gifts will never lead to ATTRACTION. Big difference.”

So what do we do after the first date of tea and stimulating conversation?

I figure that at some point, I would like to go to dinner with a new girl. Should I just let them pay for theirs?

I did that last time, since we were just becoming friends, I wasn’t that into the woman and didn’t want to look like I was trying to impress her (since I wasn’t trying to impress her), and she also has her own business and I could tell she wasn’t struggling.

Dinner has been my main date approach in the past, and I have become the Wuss in most cases!

I recently came up with a good line for a girl at the Farmers market who told me I should eat my greens…I told her she should come over and cook them for me!

She didn’t know how to respond, but I think she liked it by her smile. I’m gonna hit her up next time to be serious about that request, I think she can probably cook up some nice greens to go along with my nice Ahi Tuna dish…

A.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I want to share an interesting story about a conversation I had this evening.

I was talking with, of all people, my MOM about the topic of “men paying for things for women” and it was fascinating to me to hear her perspective.

Without hesitation, she said that she believes that men should pay for everything, and if they really like a woman that they should SUPPORT her as well.

Of course, I burst out with, “YOU HAVE TO BE KIDDING!”

After we shared a laugh, she said, “No, I’m not kidding.”

And she wasn’t kidding, either.

My own mother believes that it’s just part of being a “gentleman and good suitor” to pay for dinners, gifts, and even shelter for the woman he desires.

I immediately replied with {paraphrased}:

“This kind of sounds to me like you believe that men should pay women to give them attention, affection and sex.”

At this point I think she remembered that I write books about this kind of thing and she gave up.

But the thing that really got my attention was that she REALLY BELIEVES THAT MEN SHOULD PAY FOR EVERYTHING.

IN FACT, SHE BELIEVES IT AT THE “WELL, OF COURSE! THAT’S JUST THE RIGHT THING TO DO” LEVEL!

Heavy man, heavy.

No wonder I was such a loser before with women.

OK, I love my mom and mean no disrespect towards her…

But let’s talk about the real world for a second.

Here are a few things that I believe about how things work in general when it comes to women and dating…

LISTEN UP, THESE ARE HUGE:

1) People in general, MALE OR FEMALE, intuitively know when they are being “pursued.” As soon as we know that we have something that someone else wants, the price starts to go up. Economics 101.

2) When the price starts going up (translation: she realizes that you really like her and she starts playing hard to get, making you “prove” yourself, etc.) you start to LOSE CONTROL RAPIDLY.

3) When you lose control, you have a couple of basic ways you can respond: A) Pursue her harder, giving her even MORE control OR B) Giving up. (Neither of these options sounds very good to me.)

4) An alternative is to NEVER START GIVING UP CONTROL IN THE FIRST PLACE.

5) One way to do that is to stay away from things that put a woman into the “courting” mode of thinking and behavior.

6) Asking a woman to dinner and then buying is probably the absolute most certain way to put a woman in the state of mind that she is being “pursued” (with the possible exception of stalking her, which I strongly discourage).

By the way, I’m not opposed to the idea of buying dinner for a woman.

I’m opposed to the mindset that you put her into when you buy it.

Does this make sense to you?

If so… EXCELLENT.

In fact, if you “get” this point, here’s how I want you to build on that knowledge right now:

I want you to start to succeed with women (like you never imagined YOU could ever do) by doing just 1 new thing in your life…

I want you to adjust your “mindset” with women so that you always broadcast CONFIDENCE and CONTROL…

… instead of neediness, desperation, fear, nervousness, and anger!

Once you know how to make this adjustment by doing just a few small things (like NOT taking a woman to dinner) I absolutely GUARANTEE IT:

* Your FAILURE and FRUSTRATION with women will quickly become a thing of the past.

* Every part of your dating life will begin to run more smoothly

* You’ll feel like you are on “auto-pilot” as you make all of the right moves with women (and in life in general) every time.

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Once you do, you’ll realize that your lack of success with women may really just be a “symptom” of a deeper problem… one that MANY men have.

In the meantime — before I get into the SPECIFICS of what you need to do instead of buying a woman dinner — let me share what I used to PERSONALLY think whenever I first met an attractive woman…

I always thought something like this:

“Well, she seems nice, but in my experience you never know what a person is like until you get to know them better. So what am I willing to do to find out?”

After some thought, it usually came down to… “I guess I’d be willing take the time to have a cup of tea with her to find out more.”

Know why?

It was because the investment of going for a cup of tea is just about all the chance I’M GOING TO GIVE HER THE CHANCE TO PROVE TO ME THAT SHE’S MORE THAN JUST A PRETTY FACE.

I never think, EVEN FOR A SECOND, that I need to buy her dinner so she’ll sit and talk to me.

No way.

Incidentally, or not so incidentally, having an attitude that you need something other than yourself in order for a woman to like you is UNATTRACTIVE to women.

They can smell this kind of attitude and lack of self-worth.

Bad, bad, bad!

OK, so you get that I’m not real big on the idea of starting things off by paying for dinners and gifts.

“What should you do instead?”

I thought you’d never ask…

Well, first off, if you ABSOLUTELY CAN’T HELP YOURSELF and you just HAVE to take a woman to dinner, at least frame it as “I want to go out to this favorite restaurant of mine, and if you’d like to go you’re welcome to join me.”

Then if you decide to pay, it can be something you were doing for yourself, and you were being POLITE by paying for hers.

If you do this, make it clear that you’re there because you want to go there, and that it’s not to court her!

A much better idea is to be creative and avoid all of the things that scream “I’m willing to spend money to have your attention” (and therefore driving the price of that attention up).

Why not a walk in the park? Going to an art show? Going window shopping in an interesting part of town? Taking her with you to run errands? Taking her to a party that friends are throwing?

Here’s a hint:

DO SOMETHING THAT HAS INTERESTING CONVERSATION AND EXCITEMENT BUILT IN.

Sitting at a dinner table ALONE with someone that YOU DON’T KNOW is hardly “interesting conversation built in”. Think about it.

Take a moment right now and think of 10 things you could do with a woman that cost little or no money, but have all kinds of interesting conversation, adventure, and excitement BUILT RIGHT IN.

Then, just do some of those things!

This is great… you get to have fun, not look like a wuss, not put her in “courting” mode, and have interesting conversation built right in.

Added bonus:

You save $$.

Nice.

What I’m really trying to say here is don’t set up the idea that you’re paying for her attention.

And as for the gal who you met in the market..

I love the fact that you suggested she should come over and cook for you. Cocky and funny, very nice.

When she got that shocked look and couldn’t respond you might have said, “Oh, I didn’t mean to embarrass you…you can’t cook, huh? Well, that’s OK. It’s nothing to be ashamed of…”

These are the best moments to turn up the heat!

After that, just simply move to the “It was nice talking to you but I have to get back to my shopping…” Then, just after turning away, say, “Hey!…Do you have email?”

“Yes.”

“Great {pull out pen}. Give it to me.”

Then follow up with this email:

“Hey, nice bumping into you at the market today. After carefully considering it, I’ve decided that I can live with the fact that you can’t cook. I’ll just have to adjust. I’m busy tomorrow, but maybe the next day we can get together for a cup of tea and I can teach you a thing or two about this cooking thing. It’s really not that hard, and I’m sure you’ll get the hang of it in no time…”

By the way, I have no problem with the idea of having a woman cook for you. Just remember that if she does YOU NEED TO PLAY HARD TO GET!

Wait a minute; you need to do that anyway…

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This book and the three bonuses that come with it are the FOUNDATION for success with women. Everything you read in these newsletters will make more sense once you have read the book!

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. For better or worse, life-changing success with hot women isnt all about “lines” and “techniques.”

It’s also about learning to FEEL like a “real man” when you’re around women… as in, ALL THE TIME… so you’ll never need “lines” and “techniques” again.

If *you* feel like there’s a “real man” trapped inside of you who just can’t get out… I have a program that’s “unlocked” that man for THOUSANDS of my students!

After watching my legendary “On Being A Man” Program just ONCE, you’ll stop worrying about success with women…

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Don’t cheat yourself out of this feeling… click to learn more about my world-famous “On Being A Man” Program now:

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Posted by at 8:09 AM

Body Language That Turns Women Off

Ever wish you had “X-Ray” vision?

I’m not talking about seeing through walls, here.

I’m talking about being able “see” straight through ANY woman…to know what she’s feeling…what she’s thinking…whether she’s interested in YOU…how to take things to the next level with her.

I’m talking about seeing ALL OF IT…as CLEAR AS DAY…just by LOOKING at a woman.

This is “X-RAY” Vision that ANY guy can have (and achieve miraculous results using) once he learns a few simple secrets.

Get them here:

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Man, are you frustrated that despite knowing a few great “lines” or certain techniques for approaching women and getting their numbers that seem to work like magic for other guys.

YOU are still choking time and time again especially around women that you think are “out of your league?”

What is it that these other guys have that seems to work so well and so effortlessly for them? How do they get women to GRAVITATE to them without even trying?

If I were to guess, I’d have to say that the only reason you’re still having such a hard time when it comes to creating attraction and interest in a woman, it’s because there’s something going on SUBCONSCIOUSLY that you’re not even aware of.

You’re simply sending her the “wrong message.”

And you don’t even know it.

You might be coming across as needy, desperate, weird, too intense. But how would you know?

Right. You wouldn’t – unless she tells you to your face.

And that wouldn’t be any fun.

So here’s where I’m going with this.

I’m going to shed some light into this situation for you.

I’m going to teach you:

— The first and MOST IMPORTANT STEP you must take in order to eliminate the most common mental obstacles getting in the way of you having success with women a “whole body” technique that can REVERSE unproductive subconscious behaviors right now

— A 5-second technique to instantly get women to NOTICE YOU when you walk into a room, without have to say a word

— How your CHILDHOOD SECRETS may be negatively affecting the way your body feels when you’re with a woman. Yeah, I’m talking about your dad’s Penthouse magazines here

— The one thing you can do with your body — without touching her — that will make her think you’d be good in bed. This is the secret of men who you wouldn’t even THINK should be getting women. Amazing stuff.

— What to say in the first 10 seconds of approaching a woman at a bar or party to virtually eliminate the possibility that she’ll think you’re “creepy.”

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Believe me, if you’re still sitting around at home wondering why you can’t seem to get your game on no matter what you try, then you need to click this link above.

***SUCCESS STORY***

“If there are people out there who still don’t believe in the cocky & funny, QUIT DOUBTIN’ IT AND START WORKIN’ IT!

The other night I was at a burger joint near my office. It’s one of those grungy independent places that’s popular with the locals, and out of towners make a point to visit if they’re here for something else. The line had snaked around, and a group of three cuties was standing in front of my table. They were talking about what they’d heard, and one of them said she was looking forward to their fries.

Since I had a bunch of fries in front of me, I made eye contact and gave my fries a Vanna White flourish with my hands. She said, “Wow those look good. Can I?”

I offered her one of my fries. She dipped it in my cup of ketchup, and right as she popped it in her mouth, I looked her in the eye and said “By the way, I double-dip.” In the space of two seconds, her expressions ranged from shock at my brashness, to wondering whether she should be grossed out, to laughing.

I knew I could have gotten her e-mail/number… and the thing is, I didn’t even want to, because I’ve been seeing a solid eight. Sure, there are hotter, but until recently I would have thought she was entirely out of my league. And I ALWAYS bust her balls. She’s always coming up to me, saying “Gimme kiss”. I think for a second and say, “Umm…no, but thanks!” And then she’s enthusiastically kissing me. Or more.

I’m not the hottest guy out there. I’m pretty fat, actually. But women hate how desperation smells, and if a beautiful woman sees that you’re not looking for just anyone who’ll return the conversation, and that you’re not intimidated by their looks, that’s GOLD, man, GOLD.

In fact, it’s even worked for me at the office. Now, yes, here you have to be more careful. And it doesn’t substitute for competence. But my boss sees I’m not intimidated, and I get stuff done. In fact, today I just landed a $5K raise.

You must be tired of hearing it…well, hear it again. Dave, you da man.

E Michigan”

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Nice!

Well, I think my favorite line in your email was…

“…women hate how desperation smells…”

Because this doesn’t make a whole lotta sense to most of the guys who read it, let me do the honors of breakin’ it down for ya…

When someone says something like this, what they’re trying to say is that there’s something about “desperation” that women pick up on…but it’s not easy to describe.

Desperation comes across in all kinds of subtle ways, from how you talk to a woman, to the eye contact that you make, to how often you call her.

Women can “smell” it because women are approximately TEN TIMES better at reading body language than men. Your body language says everything about you to a woman…so, if you want to get better at attracting women, you’d better start paying attention to and taking control of it.

Start with your posture. Lift your chest.

Lean back, not forward.

Leaning forward is usually a “needy” signal.

Leaning back is usually a signal of strength.

Slow down your movements.

Fast movements convey nervousness and skittishness.

Slow movements convey self control and strength.

It’s a good idea to take some time and study the body language of guys who are successful with women. Watch closely, and pay attention to EVERYTHING.

Even though something doesn’t SEEM like it’s important, it probably is.

I have a good friend who holds his drink a certain way when he’s talking to a woman that he’s interested in.

He does it almost every time.

Is it important?

You do the math.

More great tips for triggering attraction and “chemistry” can be found here:

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***COMMENTS FROM A WOMAN***

“Hey Dave –

Ok, I can’t help myself. I’ve got to comment again. I commented last week in response to a writer who was disturbed with your methods of meeting women. And now this week, I find another, equally amusing halfwit who just doesn’t get it (the one you affectionately called a “crack smoker”..hehehe).

Is it me or the rest of the world? Jesus, people.

It’s not disrespectful, it’s not meant to be hurtful or demeaning. It’s called TEASING…it’s a playful, flattering form of teasing.

Let me give you an example of a guy I met recently, from a female’s point of view — one guy’s success story (and unless he gets your newsletter or has read your materials, he’s probably totally unaware of HOW he “hooked” me so easily). I met a guy online several months ago, we chatted for awhile and quickly discovered that we had a very compatible quick-witted sense of humor (he was cocky and very funny from the get-go…I loved it). Every time we talked on the phone, he’d find a way to bust my chops and make me laugh. (Sounds cliche, but “He had me at hello.” hehehe) He’d always point out some imperfection of mine and blow it all out of proportion and talk about how it just wasn’t going to work out because of all my flaws (kidding the whole time, of course)…one being the fact that I’m not particularly very well endowed in the chest region. A modest 38B. So after we met that first time, he walked me to my car that night, and as he turned to walk towards his car, he paused and turned back long enough to say “oh, and you’re right, you’re not very busty.” Shocked, I just said, “oh get outta here you *&$%@# ” and jabbed him in the arm. And I grinned the whole way home. And I couldn’t wait to see him again.

I hope you consider including this in your newsletter to encourage guys to keep trying your methods. THEY DO WORK! With the negative comments in the last couple of newsletters from “outraged” readers, I’d hate for any guy to second-guess that this stuff works. Because as far as I’m concerned, there just aren’t enough of you guys (cocky & funny) around. At least I can’t find ’em.

J, in Maryland”

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yeah, well I think that the REAL problem that the “halfwits” and “crack smokers” of past newsletters are having is that they don’t GET IT.

I’ve found that women HATE the idea that guys are doing ANYTHING “intentionally” to become more successful in the dating world.

Anything that has to be “learned”, really freaks some women out (as a side note, I’ve found that most of the women I’ve talked to in person about my ideas were OK with them. On occasion, a woman will freak out, but after they actually “get” what I’m talking about, they almost universally LIKE the ideas).

The REAL profound insight that I’ve had relating to this topic is that women will often SAY that they want one thing, but then, when they GET it, they seem like they don’t want it.

On the other hand, women will often SAY that they don’t like certain types of guys or certain traits, then they’ll turn around and SLEEP with one of these exact guys.

Keep in mind, we’re talking about women here. I don’t mean to pick on them…the fact is that GUYS have their own set of bizarre behaviors too. But, since everyone is reading these Mailbags to learn about how to attract women, we’re going to have to skip this discussion (Wink – Wink) of these exact guys.

And, for all the guys who doubt that what we’re talking about here “works”, just ask yourself these questions:

1) Is what you’re CURRENTLY doing working?

2) Isn’t it worth the risk to try ANYTHING else if there’s even a CHANCE that it will actually work?

Nice.

Thanks for your email.

***QUESTION***

“Hey Dave,

Been getting your newsletter for about two months now. Also got both your books and program. They’re just unbelievably superb!!!! The stuffs in your book and programs are so easy to be understood. It is like reading “How to double your dates for Dummies”. I was always nervous when I was around hot looking girls. Now, I actually have the confidence to walk up to them and ask for their emails/numbers. It’s such a big shift in such a short time. Composure is almost what the girls are looking for. Without it, they can sense you got no game. You really got the stuffs. It works wonders. I’m certainly still new to this and I am practicing everyday constantly.

I have no problems asking girls for the emails. I understand how the composure, voice tone and everything works. But this is my problem. Some girls actually say this exact same lines like “Why don’t you give me your email/number and I’ll email/call you.” I really am stuck after they said this. I just can’t figure out some C&F to say at this point to amplify the situation. I am ready to be enlightened by your teaching.

My new Sensei,

Big bow to you, E.F Canada”

>>>MY COMMENTS:

lol…I love questions like this one.

Yeah, when you start getting good at approaching women, you will start having all kinds of far-out things happen.

As a matter of fact, some of my favorite stories that my friends and I laugh about are about times that I started conversations with women.

Here, let me confuse you for a moment…

Let me give you a couple of different perspectives on your situation.

I have one good friend who has been with literally HUNDREDS of women.

He told me a story about a woman that said this to him. He asked her for her number, and she said, “Well, why don’t you write down your number and I’ll call you?”

He didn’t even hesitate…he shot back, “Don’t give me that SH**, write your number down!”

She smiled and wrote her number down.

One time, I was out talking to a girl…I asked her to write down her email and number, and she said, “You give me your number” etc.

I looked at her and said, “Never mind”.

Then, as the conversation went on, she started making comments about talking to me in the future, giving her my number, etc.

I just said, “Nah, you’re not serious. If you were, you wouldn’t be playing games with me, and you’d just give me your number”.

She wrote it down.

Funny enough, my standard response to “Why don’t you give me your number instead and I’ll call you” is to just look at her and say, “Write it down. It will be OK…” and then point to the paper.

That probably works about 50% of the time.

You have what I like to refer to as a “high quality problem”. Remember what you’ve learned in my program about what a woman is REALLY looking for. Then be it.

Just because a woman says, “Give me your number instead”, doesn’t mean that you’ve lost control. It’s usually just a test.

For more ideas about how to meet women and get their numbers, go here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/ApproachingWomen/

***COMMENT***

“OMG okay Dave,

I’m a female and have been reading your newsletters to try and figure out where guys get their “game” from. Now that I know it’s from you, I would like to say you’re a total genius. Like I’ve had guys use your tips on me and at first I’ve been like “what the hell” then later on in the conversation, we were exchanging numbers and kisses. you must be like a woman in disguise or something. you are so awesome.”

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, one thing is for sure…I’m NOT a woman in disguise.

lol…

I don’t know many women who could explain this stuff the way I do.

Oh, and feel free to send your picture and phone number with your emails in the future.

If there’s one thing that’s better than a man recognizing my genius, it’s a cute gal recognizing it.

By the way, you said something that was very interesting in your email.

You said that when guys start using these techniques with you, at FIRST you respond with “what the hell”…but LATER ON you wind up kissing and exchanging numbers.

Very VERY interesting.

This is a KEY point that most guys just can’t grasp or work with. Thanks for laying it out.

***QUESTION***

“hello there. can u please let me know, what is meant by a wussy.? I’ve came across this word a lot, in ur newsletter, wussy, and wussies, but couldn’t figure out, what it means. I didn’t find the meaning of that word in the dictionary too. As you used in ur letter, Women aren’t attracted to Wussies what is meant by that. waiting for ur reply bye

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes, I can explain the concept of what a “Wussy” is quite easily.

If you say things like “waiting for your ur reply”, you’re communicating like a Wussy.

If you don’t know what a Wussy is, you probably are one.

Guys who aren’t Wussies know what a “Wussy” is because they usually MAKE FUN OF THEM a lot.

I know, I know…I’m being harsh.

But, I used to be a BIG TIME Wussy. It was a problem.

I used to call women all the time, kiss up to them, give away my power to them, and every other WUSS-ISH thing you could do.

In other words, I’m an expert.

A Wussy is a guy who gives away his power to women, and behaves in a “submissive” way.

Don’t do this.

It’s the DARK SIDE, if there ever was one.

***QUESTION***

“David,

I’ve been reading your newsletter for about a month now and I respect your honesty and perspectives. The things you’ve said makes lots of sense and I have no doubts that they work. In fact, I have observed others use your techniques they and get remarkable results with the ladies. Now, when I read your newsletters, I thought to myself and realized that I have been somewhat using your “cocky and funny” techniques unconsciously…ie, teasing the girls, making fun of them but not putting them down. (I guess its part of my personality). I make some of the girls I work with as well as my customers laugh. The thing is, when I go out to a bar or a nightclub, or anywhere else for that matter, I tend to clam up for some reason. I might even give the impression to others that I’m a tight ass because I don’t open my mouth. I know I can keep the ball rolling once I have the girls attention. My problem is the ice breaker. The very first thing I say AFTER introducing myself, or even BEFORE depending on the situation. I feel like I don’t have any interesting things to say to start up a conversation. My question is how can I prepare myself to be more cocky per say? What ice breakers can I use and not look like a wuss at the same time? I try to listen in on the guys next to me pick up girls, try to hear what they are saying. But I’m hard of hearing and its quite hard in noisy situations for me to hear anything unless my ear is literally close. Interested in any perspectives and feedback you can give to start off.

Thanks A.W.G. – Illinois”

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Most guys are afraid of approaching women and starting conversations.

When you say the words “ice breaker”, you ASSUME that a woman is going to respond to you “coldly”. You know, Ice = Cold.

The fact is that there are a certain percentage of women out there who are happy, open and receptive in general, and a certain amount that are cold, closed and NOT receptive.

I had a guy come to my last seminar in Los Angeles who went out and started approaching women.

He came back into the seminar the next day and told this story…

He said that he couldn’t believe how he let his past negative programming stop him from starting conversations with women. He had gone out and walked up to women, one after the other, and just simply said, “Hi, I’m out meeting people tonight, what’s your name?” and women were giving him all kinds of positive responses.

Just remember that most women will respond somewhere in the range of “neutral” to “positive” if you say almost ANYTHING to them.

Now, if you want to start conversations in bars and nightclubs and you just can’t get the nerve up to do it, try this…

Find a BUSY place near the bar where people are lining up to order drinks. Find a place where people are literally crammed together like sardines.

Work your way up to the bar at the BUSIEST spot, and either stand there, or get a chair there.

The idea is that you want to be where a lot of women will walk up to the bar during the evening and ACCIDENTALLY bump into you.

If you REALLY want to make this work for you, wear a loud or unique shirt…something that has a soft, “feely” texture.

Over the course of a few hours, some conversations will start BY THEMSELVES.

Women will say, “excuse me” and try to get past you.

Some women will ask you to order a drink for them.

Some will just bump up against you on accident and then apologize.

Take a few minutes, and think up some good responses that fit your personality…and have them ready.

Try:

“Look, if you wanted to start a conversation with me you could have just said, “hi”, you didn’t have to be violent about it.”

That should get you started.

The point is that there’s a way to put yourself in a situation that automatically sparks conversations. You just need to be ready when it happens.

This kind of thing should help you get past the fear and hesitation to start conversations on your own.

***QUESTION***

“David D.,

First off, I’d like to thank you for taking the time to put all of this material together. As a guy who is finally beginning to understand the game and is on his way to “get it”, I’d like to thank you. I’m still not completely to the place I’d like to be, but I’m on my way (being able to walk up to any woman who I’d like to meet and being able to secure digits and lead things the rest of the way from there). The ideas that I’m finding that really help me keep my focus (and not get too nervous/needy) are many from your advanced program that I purchased. ex- What they think of you is their business, and acting almost too comfortable around them. I’m also in the process of reading Comedy Writing Secrets by Helitzer and have 3 other books purchased (of those you recommended) that will be my next projects.

Okay, on to the comment and question. I’ve read recently that studies have shown (can’t remember if this was from Reader’s Digest or what) that even if you’re a shy person, acting outgoing will improve your mental health and get rid of that feeling of seclusion that many introverted people have. On to the question…in your Advanced program, the idea of congruence is mentioned several times, mostly as that you have to be congruent when you talk to a woman. This concept seems to be rather elusive and I was wondering if you could go into more detail about what “being congruent” entails.

Thanks, T.C. from Virginia”

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Sure, the idea of being “congruent” when you communicate simply means to have ALL LEVELS of your communication “in alignment” with each other and “saying the same thing”.

If you’re asking a woman for her number, but you’re looking around nervously and hesitating, it’s not “congruent”.

On the other hand, if you’re saying, “Write down your email and number for me” while taking out a pen and paper…as if it’s the 147th time that you’ve done it, it’s CONGRUENT.

Most people don’t realize that they’re sending MIXED MESSAGES all the time.

Have you ever asked someone “What’s wrong?” and had them say, “NOTHING’S WRONG! Why does everyone keep asking me what’s wrong?”

That’s a mixed message. And it’s not congruent.

You want to line up ALL of your communication.

Your body language, voice tone, words, etc.

All of the different specific body language, voice tone, and gestures that I recommend in my programs have a single goal in mind: To help you be 100% CONGRUENT when you are communicating with women.

There are ways to use “mixed messages” that can create attraction, but make sure you’re doing it INTENTIONALLY when you do!

The more congruent you are, and the more you use the techniques that I’m teaching, the better your responses from women will become.

***COMMENT***

“Y’know, my mom actually wanted to comment on your program. She’s been teaching me and my brothers about what women REALLY want from men ever since I was very small. She’s been teaching us pretty much the same material that you cover in your book and advanced series (which I recently picked up by the way, I fell so much in love with the book I just couldn’t resist, it’s been GREAT!), and she just wanted me to tell you that you hit it right on the head! Her saying has always been pretty much: “Women don’t want a hard-ass, but women also don’t want a BITCH-ASS, either.” I have tried other dating success training, and t his one is by far my favorite. There’s…one… that I tried before yours. Theirs isn’t NEARLY as good as yours, because the techniques they teach are way to unnatural, too analytical, doesn’t let you be yourself at all, and doesn’t work for everyone in every situation. Your service is the best I’ve seen so far, because IT ALLOWS YOU TO BE YOURSELF, while HONESTLY sparking ATTRACTION in a female, and automatically DOES NOT work on a woman with a stick up her ass! I can tell you put a lot of work into this, you’ve defiantly touched many lives. Not just for men, but women too. Thanks David.

C.D. from Texas”

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Oh YEAHHHHH!

Dude, even your MOM endorses my stuff.

This is out of control.

You know, actually…you suck.

I wish that MY MOM would have taught me this stuff, instead of teaching me wisdom such as “You need to buy women more things” and “A man should always pay for things”, etc.

And any mom who would teach her son:

“Women don’t want a hard-ass, but women also don’t want a BITCH-ASS, either.”

…has my respect.

And to comment on your experience with the techniques and systems that others teach on how to meet women…

My guess is that 95% of the others who have written books on this topic or developed other programs are doing it for the MONEY alone.

In other words, their main focus is the CASH, and NOT helping guys improve with women.

Now, I certainly enjoy the cash. No argument there.

But my MAIN OBJECTIVE is to have the absolute BEST system and materials that are available ANYWHERE, at ANY PRICE.

I have spent a LOT of time, effort and energy to figure out what works to attract women.

Here’s the test:

Go download my online eBook, and order up one of my programs. You can get all to try out RISK- FREE.

THEN, go buy another book on the topic, or whatever else you can find (make sure it comes with a 100% money-back guarantee.)

My bet is that you’ll return everything else before you’ve even finished reading it (or listening, or whatever) and that I couldn’t pry my stuff out of your hands with a CROWBAR.

My stuff WORKS BETTER, and is easier to use than all the other stuff out there, period.

And, probably the MOST IMPORTANT benefit is something that was mentioned in this newsletter when you learn how and why women feel ATTRACTION, and you learn how to trigger it with your communication and body language, you don’t have to use a bunch of “unnatural tricks” or dishonest techniques that “feel wrong”.

I’ll teach you how to develop that “innate” or natural part of yourself that is already there… and give you the correct perspective and programming to get RESULTS.

Try it, you’ll like it.

And, if you don’t like it, you’ve lost nothing…because all of my stuff comes with a “try it before you buy it” zero risk policy.

So, do this…

Go download my online eBook “Double Your Dating” right now, and you’ll be reading it within a few minutes. You can download it here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/eBook/

And go order a copy of my Advanced Dating Techniques program. This program is the most complete, in-depth program in the world for learning how to overcome fear, approach women, get numbers, get dates, meet women online, and take things to a “physical” level without fear or rejection.

Go watch some great preview video clips of it, and get all the details here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/AdvancedSeries/

I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Make sure you take a few minutes and look through all of the different programs I’ve created to help you succeed with women. You can look at all of them right here, plus watch some fantastic free video clips right here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/Catalog/


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Posted by at 8:12 AM

Video Tip: A Simple Way To Turn Online Chat Into Actual Dates

Update:

Most of my students now “get” that the Fastest, Easiest, most Pain-Free way to meet amazing women is on the Internet…

But I’m also hearing that some of you still feel a bit uncertain… even clueless… about how to turn pings and online chat into actual dates.

If this sounds like you, here comes a Free Video Tip that you need to watch right now…

Click the play button to learn a quick, easy way for taking your “online game” into the real world:

If you can’t see the video above, just go here to start watching now.

Hey Man,

You’ve heard me say it before:

Once you learn a few simple secrets and techniques, the internet INSTANTLY becomes your own private, totally risk-free “dating playground.”

It’s a “guaranteed-success destination” where ANY guy can go to meet tons of great women… entirely at will… completely hassle-free and Results-Guaranteed.

It’s the easiest place to learn how to “approach” women.

It’s the best place to have attraction-building conversations with women.

Above all, the internet is the only place to learn it all completely free from fear of “blowing it” or experiencing painful, face-to-face rejection.

All of which leads to why I’m writing you today…

Sure… any man can follow my simple, step-by-step, “machine-like” methods for meeting (and creating irresistible attraction) with great women online…

But once you learn to make it happen, what happens next?

It’s the question I get more than any other when it comes to online dating:

“How Do I Turn My Jammed Inbox Into Actual Dates?”

Well. This what we call a “champagne problem”…

Once you have it, you’re already well on your way to life-changing success with women.

Even better:

Once you have tons of great women “hooked” on you because of the way you attract, meet, and chat with them online…

… there’s then a Simple, Step-By-Step method for converting that success into Actual, Off-The-Hook, Real-World Dates.

Frankly, some of these methods require more than a 2-minute video clip to teach. (That’s what my Full “Meeting Women Online” program is for.)

But for now…

To get you started (and show you how simple it is to convert online interest from women into actual Dates) I want to share a particularly quick, easy method for making women you meet online want to meet you In Person.

Go here now to watch a free video tip that’s all about it.

It’s guaranteed to work.

Your friend,

David D.


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Posted by at 8:06 AM

Online Dating, Beautiful Women, And Insecurity

NOTE: I’d like to teach you the direct method of communication with women called Body Language… that will get a woman to notice you, feel attraction for you, and even APPROACH you. Find out more here:

http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/BodyLanguage.html

***QUESTION***

Hey wassup?

I have just reread your book again and I took a look at all my online profiles that I have posted in the past. At first I didn’t want to believe what was in the ebooks but as I thought about it more and more I realized I was totally on the wrong path. Then I was always wondering why no one ever responded to my profiles so I took a look at the profiles after gaining the knowledge from your ebook and realized they stank with wussyness that would make girls in a three mile radius run away fast! Well I changed my profiles and added a lot of C & F to it and just basically had fun with it and I can’t believe the success I have gotten from it. I am getting a bunch of e-mails a day from girls (I have gotten more e-mail in 2 days then I got in 4 months with my old profile). I also have around 5 dates set up for the next three week period!

Thanks again for all your hard work and from turning me from a momma’s boy into a real man (that virtual slap to the face really woke me up! just don’t do it so hard next time!).

TY

PS. Just a comment I find it funny that sometimes I will see a girl that is about an 8 or 9 and when I talk to them for a while I find out a lot of them see themselves as just average or below average. Any insight as to why some hot girls (or cold whichever) see themselves as this when they could probably get any guy they wanted?

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Before I answer your great question about why beautiful women see themselves as “just average” or “below average” and what it means to you, I want to comment on your email… and in particular, the quote:

“Then I was always wondering why no one ever responded to my profiles so I took a look at the profiles after gaining the knowledge from your ebook and realized they stank with wussyness…”

I do believe that you’ve coined a new term.

In the future, whenever anyone says that a particular guy’s behavior “Stanks Of Wussyness” or “Stank With Wussyness” they will have YOU to thank.

Or stank.

Or whatever.

And I think that the reason I liked this one quote so much is that it just plain RINGS TRUE.

Women can SMELL that thing called WUSSYNESS.

And the fact that women can actually detect the STRONG STANK OF WUSS even through an INTERNET PROFILE says something even MORE profound…

It says that the concept of being a WUSSY is an “INNER” idea.

In other words, it’s something that originates in your MIND. It’s a combination of beliefs, as well as the communication of those beliefs through words, body language, etc.

Think about that for a moment.

A woman can actually SMELL A WUSSY from an INTERNET PROFILE ALONE.

And as soon as you changed your profile around to get rid of the Wussyness in it, your responses changed INSTANTLY.

So what is it about this particular set of qualities that make up a WUSSY that women just aren’t attracted to?

Well, I really think that it all comes down to the fact that ATTRACTION isn’t based on LOGIC.

It’s not a “decision.”

You’ve heard me say that “Attraction Isn’t A Choice” probably a bazillion times now.

Just realizing that women can’t “choose” who they feel attracted to, makes you also realize that there are qualities that women DO feel attracted to AUTOMATICALLY.

On the flip side of the coin, there are many qualities that INSTANTLY turn a woman OFF as well.

When you put many of these “anti-attraction” qualities together, you’ll usually find a Wussy.

Women KNOW that they aren’t attracted to guys who are Wussies.

And they have an amazing “WussDar” system that is finely tuned to recognize those subtle little hints that say, “I’m A Wuss!”.

Women have all kinds of little “code words” and body language cues that they use with each other to describe the process of NOT being attracted to a particular guy because he acts like a Wuss.

If you see two women talking, and one is describing a date she had with a guy who was a Wuss, it might go something like this:

Girl #1: “Yeah, he was NICE, and he was good- looking… but when he showed up he had flowers with him… and then before we could even get out the door he was asking me if it was OK with me if we went to the restaurant he chose… an hour into dinner he asked me if I thought that the date was going OK…”

Girl #2: “Ohhh, Ewwww. That’s not gonna work…”

Girl #1: “Yeah, I know. Why do most guys have to act so needy and stupid? If I wanted another girlfriend, I’d go meet WOMEN…”

Girl #2: “So how are you going to cut him loose?”

Girl #1: “I’m just not going to call him back, and he’ll get the hint… I hope. But, then again, probably not. He’ll call me every day for a week, and when I reach him I’m going to have to make up a story about being busy with work… you know the deal. Eventually he’ll get the hint.”

Girl #2: “Why don’t guys get it?”

…and on and on.

From just a few little clues, the friend KNEW that this guy STANK OF WUSSYNESS.

From there on, it was just ASSUMED that he didn’t have a chance.

It was over.

The conversation was on to “How are you going to get rid of him?” NATURALLY.

This is how women actually respond to Wussy behavior and communication… INSTANTLY.

And the worst part is that once you’re mentally branded a Wussy in a woman’s mind, you’re in that category FOREVER.

Getting out of the mental Wuss category is one of the hardest things you can ever TRY to do.

It’s not even worth the effort.

The key is to not get into the Wuss category in the FIRST PLACE.

And while you’re in the process of not being a Wussy, you need to make her feel ATTRACTION as well.

More on that later.

Now I want to address your question…

You asked why many attractive women see themselves as “average” or “below average”… when they could probably get any guy they want.

These are the kinds of questions that I think about a lot.

The crazy things that people say and do really fascinate me.

And I’m especially interested in these areas of psychology that just don’t seem to MAKE SENSE.

Attractive women get a lot of attention.

In fact, for an attractive woman, attention can actually become like a DRUG.

I have personally known and dated some very attractive women… models, actresses, dancers, and so on.

And I can verify that the most attractive women are also the most INSECURE women when it comes to their attractiveness.

Illogical?

Maybe.

But think about it this way…

If you’re an unusually attractive woman, your looks become your IDENTITY.

Everyone that meets you mentions your looks.

Every guy you date tells you how beautiful you are.

Every day, everywhere you go, you have people talking about how you look.

But MORE importantly, the more you hear it, and the more you think about it, the more you begin to realize that there are OTHER women who are MORE attractive than you.

Since “looks” is the topic that’s always coming up, you’re always thinking about it.

If a woman with a bigger chest walks by, you immediately think “maybe I’d be more attractive if I had a bigger chest” and you feel insecure.

If a thinner woman walks by, you think that maybe you should be thinner.

If a woman with a different hair color walks by, you wonder if your hair is the right color.

This kind of thing triggers INSECURITY every time it happens.

Trust me.

This kind of thing gets WORSE the MORE attractive a woman is…

Because the most beautiful women are often MODELS… and they get to go from one audition to the next… and see literally hundreds and hundreds of other “competitive” women who each have some feature that’s just a little “better” than theirs.

Now imagine what it’s like to be a woman with “average” looks.

If your looks are “average”, you don’t hear about them so much.

Your looks aren’t the topic of every conversation.

Your looks aren’t your “identity” the way they are for the beautiful girl.

And since you don’t think about your looks as much, and don’t talk about your looks as much, you don’t feel that deep insecurity as often when an attractive woman walks by.

Reality can be pretty weird sometimes.

It’s different for each of us.

You can put a beautiful woman in a room with 100 guys who all think she’s the hottest thing they’ve ever seen… but she’ll still feel like “nothing special” and that she looks horrible that evening.

All the compliments she hears will roll off her like water rolls off a duck’s back… because she’ll detect the subtle tone of Wussy, and she will be thinking about how one of her girlfriends just got a boob job and how insecure she feels now because guys look at those new boobs a lot.

The reality of THIS situation is that very few women have the “whole package.”

The combination of looks, personality, emotional stability, and intelligence is RARE.

You’re going to have to date quite a few women before you’re going to find that one fantastic one who really has it all together.

One of the things you’ll notice about attractive women is that they REALLY respond to Cocky & Funny comments… especially about LOOKS.

They tend to “get it” faster, because you’re touching a sensitive spot.

And by the way, when you make fun of a “super hottie”, it is big-time fun for the whole family.

It instantly levels the playing field.

It says, “Hey, I’m not one of the guys who is affected by your looks… and I’m not going to act like I need your approval” INSTANTLY.

It says, “all the right things” all at the same time… and it makes women laugh as well.

There are a LOT of different things that don’t make any “logical sense” when it comes to the world of women and dating.

Unfortunately for most guys, these things will always be a mystery.

For most men, the idea of being able to meet and date as many interesting, attractive women as they want will always be a fantasy… but never a reality.

This sucks, because it doesn’t have to be that way… you don’t have to just accept your current level of success with women and dating.

Until now, there have been almost no options when it came to learning how to get this area of your life handled…

Well, the good news is that I’ve spent a lot of years now personally figuring all of this stuff out.

I’ve figured out how to make women feel ATTRACTION by using body language and other communication… and it’s really not that hard.

But, like any other skill that’s valuable, it’s not something that you can learn in 2 minutes.

It takes a little practice.

The GREAT news is that instead of taking several YEARS of research, reading, and trying crazy stuff that doesn’t work (like I did), you can get the benefits of my “banging my head against the wall” research… and go straight to the good stuff.

My Advanced Dating Techniques program is the ULTIMATE training program for this stuff. Not only did it take me YEARS to learn all of this stuff in the first place, and figure it all out, but it also took me literally HUNDREDS of hours of my time to put this particular program together.

I really designed this thing from the beginning to be the absolute best training available in the history of the world on how to meet and date women.

If you read some of the feedback in these newsletters and on the web site, I think you’ll find that quite a few guys agree that it’s pretty damn good.

But I want YOU to be the judge.

My offer is still available: Go to my web site and order it for a risk-free trial. If you don’t like it, I’ll give all your money back. I’m convinced that after you start watching it and start learning from it, you’ll send me an email with a success story.

The details are here, along with some good samples:

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It’s JAM-PACKED with powerful techniques for meeting women online… anytime, 24-hours a day, 7-days a week.

As I’ve mentioned to you, I used the internet a LOT when I was first learning how to meet women… and it gave me a HUGE advantage.

Now you can learn all of the most powerful ways to use email, instant messengers, dating sites, social networking sites, and everything in between… to attract the kind of woman you want.

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And of course, if you haven’t downloaded your copy of my online eBook, you need to get that immediately. It’s the place to start, and you can be reading it in literally a few minutes from right now. It’s here:

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I’ll talk to you again soon

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. Don’t forget to check out all of the programs I’ve created to help you learn how to attract and meet women. My programs cover ALL aspects… from “Inner Game” stuff like how to overcome fear and a limiting self-image, to specific techniques like how to approach women, how to meet women online, and how to make sure that your conversation creates ATTRACTION.

PLUS, they’re all available for INSTANT online viewing, so you don’t have to wait to start learning all this stuff. Check them all out here:

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The Only 3 Ways To Spark Attraction

NOTE: If you’d like to learn more about this secret “language of attraction” that all women speak… but most men don’t…then take a minute and read this right now:

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Man, have you ever wondered why women you see out at bars and nightclubs (and even at malls and restaurants) sometimes dress so SEXY?

It’s an interesting question.

I mean, let’s think about it from the woman’s perspective…

An attractive woman gets attention from men all the time…no matter WHAT she’s wearing.

Attractive women don’t have to “accent” their beauty in order to attract men.

And the question becomes VERY interesting when you consider that often it’s the most BEAUTIFUL women that go to the GREATEST lengths to enhance their beauty.

You know what I mean…

A perfectly beautiful woman gets an expensive operation to make herself “one cup size” larger…

A tall, stunning model spends all day at the mall shopping for just the right high-heeled shoes…

A naturally beautiful woman spends hours in front of the mirror getting ready to go out…and puts on tons of makeup…

AND FOR WHAT?

Could it possibly be worth all the extra time and effort…spending HOURS and HOURS to get that “extra little bit” of beauty, when a woman already has “more than enough”?

Hey, no one ever said women made SENSE.

(Don’t get too excited. Men have their strange points as well.)

Let me tell you about a few of the reasons why women go to these lengths to squeeze that “extra little bit” out of their beauty…

1. To Maximize Her Strengths In Order To Attract The Best Man

Let’s turn this picture around, and look at it from another direction.

Let’s imagine that an attractive woman is getting ready to go to a party.

There are going to be a hundred men and a hundred women at this party (I know, I know…you think that I must be smoking something…because most parties have 100 men and 10 women…and resemble the sausage counter at your local market…but humor me here for a second).

If there are going to be a hundred men at this party, it follows that a few of those men are going to be the “best” ones.

Do you think this particular woman is going to want to settle for one of the “random sausages” running around?

Nope.

She wants the “best” one…if possible.

And that guy has OPTIONS.

Soooo…she needs to “fix herself up”, EVEN THOUGH SHE’S ALREADY BEAUTIFUL…if she wants to have the BEST chance of getting THAT guy.

2. Competition From Other Women

This particular idea was one of the most interesting and surprising things I learned about women while I was educating myself about dating and attraction.

Here’s the deal:

Attractive women tend to be VERY, VERY competitive.

A few years ago, when I first moved to Los Angeles, I was introduced to a concept called “The Bitch Look”.

Sounds charming, doesn’t it?

Here’s how it works…

When a “hot” woman walks into a room, EVERYONE checks her out.

The “sausage” looks her up and down with a “let me get a really good look because I’ll be using her as a spank-it fantasy later” stare.

The “top guys”, who have options, glance at her and make a “mental note” to talk to her later.

The OTHER hot women look at her and give her… yep, you guessed it….THE BITCH LOOK.

Why?

Because another hot woman is instantly seen as COMPETITION.

A hot woman doesn’t want OTHER hot women competing with her for the “best guys”.

So they give other women “bitch looks”.

It’s competition, intimidation, and millions of years of evolution all rolled up into one special package.

(Think about this for a minute, because there’s a clue here about how to attract the MOST attractive women. I’ll reveal the secret later…)

So let’s just say that attractive women DON’T LIKE COMPETITION.

In order to MINIMIZE their competition, they FIX THEMSELVES UP… and emphasize their good points TO THE MAX.

When an already-beautiful woman goes to the trouble to pick out just the right clothes…the ones that flatter her figure…and put on just the right makeup…in a way that draws attention to her finer points…and styles her hair…in a way that draws attention to her and frames her face…

…it puts her ABOVE the competition

3. To Get The Most Attention And Approval

Now that we’ve talked about a couple of the underlying reasons why women go to great lengths to make themselves more beautiful, I want to talk about the one reason that has the most VALUE to you…

This reason holds the secret of actually ATTRACTING beautiful women.

But let’s not get ahead of ourselves just yet…

At the very CORE of human psychology and behavior are the twin concepts of ATTENTION and APPROVAL.

Some evolutionary theorists think that the basic formula goes like this:

If you get more attention from others, and those others like you more, then you and your offspring are more likely to survive and pass on your genes to future generations.

Is this making sense?

Think about it this way:

If others of your species DON’T like you and don’t give you any attention, you are going to have a hard time finding a mate… and reproducing.

And if others don’t like you, then you aren’t going to have the benefits that come from the group… like protection, combined effort, etc.

It just so happens that an attractive woman has a SUBCONSCIOUS (but VERY accurate) indicator of whether or not “the group” likes and approves of her…

It’s the amount of ATTENTION she gets.

If a woman is getting a lot of attention, it keeps her feeling “OK”. She knows, on a deep, primal level that she’s accepted by the group… and that she’s going to stay healthy and have a good chance of mating with a “top male”.

But this particular concept has a DARK SIDE to it…and don’t they all?

Just like anything else that triggers feelings/emotions (very addictive chemicals), attention and approval can lead to a literal ADDICTION.

It’s like money, fame, power…all the famous ones… YOU CAN’T GET ENOUGH.

And here’s another VERY interesting point:

If you’re a beautiful woman who is always getting attention and approval from men and you meet a man who DOESN’T give you that attention and approval, it has an INSTANT and POWERFUL impact.

Furthermore, if the man you’re interacting with actively AVOIDS giving you attention…and gives you DISAPPROVAL, it can have the effect of instantly SCRAMBLING YOUR SYSTEMS.

Again, attractive women don’t meet a lot of guys that could care less about her beauty…and instead see it as a “cover up” for some “hidden” thing…

Which leads me to the “secret” I mentioned earlier…

If you want to learn how to ATTRACT these “unusually beautiful” women, then you need to get a clue about what creates the idea in her mind that YOU are one of the most “desirable” men.

And how can you do that?

…Oh, by the way, before I give you the secret here, I want to mention something: If you want to REALLY get an “insider education” on the deeper psychology of attracting women…and on how to build a powerful SEXUAL PRESENCE…then I highly recommend that you check out my “Power Sexuality” program. This is like ROCKET FUEL for creating CHEMISTRY with attractive women…and you can only get it in one place:

http://www.DoubleYourDating.com/catalog/PowerSexuality/

OK, back to the secret…

1) Become rich and famous

or

2) Get plastic surgery to look like Brad Pitt

or

3) Trigger ATTRACTION inside of her.

Here’s the interesting thing about triggering ATTRACTION:

When you do it, she can’t CONTROL it.

If a woman starts feeling ATTRACTION for you, I’ll guarantee you that she didn’t “THINK about it and DECIDE to feel it”.

And I guarantee you that she can’t CHANGE IT by THINKING ABOUT IT.

And guess what one of the BEST ways is to TRIGGER this “automatic and subconscious” physical and emotional response called attraction IS?

Here’s a hint:

It has something to do with these two concepts we’ve been talking about…ATTENTION and APPROVAL.

If you’re interacting with an unusually attractive woman, it’s VERY important that you don’t communicate to her that you are “overwhelmed by her beauty”…or that you can’t control yourself.

Furthermore, if you actively control the amount of attention that you give her…and you don’t show her “approval” too quickly (and even show her some DISAPPROVAL)…you’ll often create a POWERFUL interest inside of her.

Why is this?

Well, think about it for a minute.

You’re the hot woman walking into the “sausage party”.

For the first two hours, you keep having guys walk up to you and say, “You’re really hot” and “Can I get you a drink?”

Every guy that comes within ten feet of you can’t stop looking at you, and the ones that talk to you make it clear that they would be willing to do anything for you…

And then you meet a guy that isn’t like any of these other guys AT ALL.

He’s clearly not impressed with your beauty, and he’s even busting your balls…

You can’t tell if he likes you or not, and you feel CHALLENGED by him.

How are you going to respond?

Let’s add another element…

For some reason you can’t explain, you’re starting to feel a GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for him.

NOW what do you do?

That’s right: You give him all of YOUR attention and approval… hoping that he will give YOU some in return.

In other words, you switch from the one being pursued to the one DOING the pursuing.

And so the question is…HOW?

How do you create this situation, and communicate these things to an attractive woman?

How do you do it in such a way that it creates ATTRACTION…and gets her to start pursuing YOU?

I’ve given you a lot of good ideas here.

They will get you started.

But, if you’d REALLY like to learn how to take control of “attention and approval” and turn them into TOOLS that you can use to attract those “unusually beautiful” women, then I’d like to recommend that you invest in my Cocky Comedy online video program.

It has taken me many years of time, effort, and energy to really “get” how to use a “personality based approach” to attract beautiful women.

If you’ve been reading these newsletters for any length of time, then you understand just how important the “Cocky & Funny” technique is for attracting women.

You may have even used it, and found that it gets a VERY different kind of response from women than “normal conversation”.

Well, in this program, I and some amazing guest speakers will teach you the foundations of Cocky Comedy… and then we’ll teach you literally HUNDREDS of different ways to use it… with individual scripts and lines…

And we’ll teach you how to weave it all together into conversations in ANY situation.

This program is not only comprehensive, but it’s COMPLETELY different from anything else available anywhere.

It’s a concept that I’ve pioneered, and it’s only available here.

I really encourage you to go here and watch the video clips of the program (you’ll get a lot from just watching the samples):

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And I’ll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

P.S. If you haven’t taken the time to go and download my online eBook “Double Your Dating”, then you need to do that immediately. You can download it right now, and be reading it in literally MINUTES. It will teach you a TON about how to control yourself and your interactions with women in a way that triggers ATTRACTION…go download it here:

http://www.DoubleYourDating.com/catalog/eBook/


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Posted by at 8:07 AM